Are you clear of what you are hoping for ?? (:

It was an awesome night in my church celebrating valentine's day (:
Truly it was an event that draws people to know the true love of Jesus Christ and let them know that church is lively and full of joy and love (:

After this night,
it gets my mind to think about some questions (:


If guys were supposed to go after a girl?? (:



will it ever happen if the guy doesn't know she is waiting...



and the guy is slowly fading away.....

IF..


but i recall the conversations that i made with my twenty-year-old cousin about Relationship..

He has a girlfriend, and he told me that she is " ONCE AND FOR ALL"..

isn't it amazing to hear a guy saying that..it's touching for me though..


He said,
"Everyone has their own requirements towards their future partner that they hope to have. You can't just bang into someone you like hoping to slowly discover and find out things which you may not accept and only try to start understand him or her more. "

well,
i believe everyone has set at least one or two requirememnts...

so he asked " if you were given a choice to set your five requirememnts, what will be the things that you must find in your partner that you hope to have.."

i mentioned a few, but the feedbacks from him made me realize that i don't know what i want clearly.
and when you don't know clearly, how can you open up your eyes wide enough to search..

but while i was answering, i found that i was mentioning them from

"somewhere".


At last i asked,

"how sure are you to find someone who has the five that you hope to have in your partner?"


"There will surely be one. God will provide. This is what you mean by trusting God for a partner"
 he said.

So i started to think, yes, there will be one, and we will be the one who made the decision. That's right (:

What about you??
What's your requirement??

Pray about it (:
God will answer.
Though you may not know where is this boy or girl?
Or will he or she ever comes back to you?


Let this valentine's day be a day where you are clear of what you want and what you need to do ,
and endure, hope, dream of a marriage perfected by God's love (:


p/s: 你的爱是我的everything (: